Christmas 2010

                                        Warrey Christmas 2010

Hello and Merry Meet to our friends and family!  How was your 2010?  I ask because, as I reflected on the past year I, uhhh, pretty much came up with a blank until sometime in June. Huh, weird. It wasn’t until I read a few of my newsletters from Christmases past that I discovered the reason for my non-total recall... between January and May I basically had nothing to whine about. The weather was mild; nothing needed to be built or installed with the house or yard and life was pretty much the usual routine. So what that says about me is; unless something is Inconvenient, Irritating or Monumental, it simply doesn’t register on my ‘it’s all about me’ radar.  But, as usual, the radar wasn’t silent for long and then came June, which was Monumental! 

A few of my family members are scattered from Seattle on down to California and it had been years since we all got together so we decided it was Reunion time!  We met at my mom's place in Cottage Grove, Oregon; my brother Bob and his family drove up from California and we had a wonderful family party! Cousins, Aunts, Uncles and other relatives I hadn't seen in an embarrassingly long time along with mom's neighbors all gathered for a huge BBQ, complete with live music!  Most definitely Monumental...

Oh yeah, this group knows how to Party like a rock star! (Or at least like someone kinda semi-famous)

In August we joined Steve’s family for a day of fun at Lake Cushman in the Olympic Peninsula. As always we had a lot of fun eating, playing games and swimming... wait; there wasn’t much swimming because it was pretty cool for a summer day. In fact the whole summer was mild which, again, left me with no cause to whine; oh but I got my whine back big time, but more of that later, (I know, you cant hardly wait right)?  My Niece, Dayna, surprised us with happy news that she and her husband Kyle were going to have a baby... and last week precious Erick Warrey Dennis was born. So wonderful to have the Warrey name carry on in the family.  

Now let me just preface this next part by saying that, for most of my classmates, this was a year we turned 50... which is both Monumental and extremely Irritating, hence Memorable,  but we all fell into the abyss of  ‘wait, that’s for old people’ with as much grace as we could muster. I had a hard time mustering anything, let alone grace, so I let it be known there would be no celebration, no party for this crabby, slightly bitter and soon to be OLD person; and with that being said:  I had a birthday party at work... and it was fun!  Famous Dave’s ribs, lots of flowers and well wishes; turns out it was going to be OK to be 50.

 And then something so diabolical happened, something so inconceivable, I literally could not wrap my mind around it.  On a Saturday, well after my actual birthday, Ryan, aka. Master Manipulator of all things Conspiracy lures me and my poofy, muppet-haired self to the Pavilion where I walk into a SURPRISE!!!! Party... it truly was a surprise and I don’t know how they pulled it off.  Delilah and her band of sneaky minions, which included ALL of my family, friends and Co-workers, somehow managed to plan and execute a Disco 70s party that included flying people in and hiding them away, without me finding out! After the initial astonishment wore off and I saw those who took the time to come all the way up to Port Orchard to see what an old person looks like celebrate my big day... well it touched my heart deeply; and I will never trust those Liars ever again!  LOL, seriously I feel so blessed to have so many who love me and who took the time to put on some of the best disco 70s costumes I’ve ever seen. Polyester, ahhh the memories! 

 When Steve, Executive Director of Tharpington manor, isn’t hiding surprise party secrets from his wife - he can be found tending to business in-house and out that seems never ending, especially when it keeps coming back each spring.  Yes my friends, the Battle of the Scotch Broom continued all through out the spring and summer!  Armed with a fortified weed eater, John Deere lawn mower (which seems to think sprinkler heads are tasty and therefore to be chewed up and spit out) and various other arsenals of sharp, ouchy tools… Steve is ridding our land of the heinous weed.  When not waging plant-based war outside he escapes to the mighty man cave to play World of Warcraft; sometimes you can hear his mighty battle cry “Damn it, we’re tanking! Somebody Rez me!”  Ummm, or something like that…they have their own verbiage in WOW, kind of like Klingon.  I think. 

Both Baylee and Bobby love following Steve around and ‘helping’ him with stuff, just super big helpers they are...for taking naps!

Ryan is attending Olympic Community College and working at the Pavilion, and various other places that he’s needed.  He’s taking singing and guitar lessons and is becoming quite the talented artist!  He’s always had a creative way with music and it’s fun to see him explore those areas he’s drawn to.  Loyal to all things Apple and Mac related he continues to revel in the technology of the iPhone, iLaptop and iHate windows!  Just ask him, he’ll tell you how he iHearts Mac and nothing else will do! LOL, he’s managed to convince lots of people so if you think you want to go to the iSide, give him a call and you’ll be converted in an iSecond!  

November is when I got my whine back.  OMG it was one thing after another; rain and wind…and the power goes out.  Snow the week before Thanksgiving and turns to ice… and the power goes out.  Another big wind storm and… the freaking Power goes out!  GAH!  Do you know how boring it is without and how dependent we’ve become on power?  We can’t even flush the toilet without electricity let alone watch TV, play computer or turn a light on.  I have a Kindle and a little book light so I’m actually good for hours on end but Steve, yeah, not so much.  Lots of heavy sighing and ‘what’s there to do’ going on from that one… luckily we have a generator which has been extremely useful; just need to keep it full of gas and we have a lights, a little heat and the TV!  I hear this is the year of La Nina where we will get wetter and colder conditions and I’m thinking we’ve already had a couple months of just that.  After the last power outage we stocked up on the important things needed for survival; Beer, reading material and batteries for the radio… by golly we will NOT be bored again! 

So that was our year in a long winded, definitely snarky nutshell.  Oh, speaking of snarky, I’ve started a blog… www.guttermutter.blogspot.com  it’s name alone should alert you as to the general theme of it; there is swearing and irreverent talk so viewer digression is advised.  It’s so fun to swear there, since I can’t on Facebook! LOL.

We hope your year was happy and productive and that this New Year brings you and yours Peace, Joy and Power… the Power to make others smile.  May 2011 be without Irritations or Inconveniences and full of Monumental Love and Laughter!

Our Love always,

      Dee Dee              Steve                   Ryan

KniteStars@aol.com     Slippnaut@aol.com      Ryan.Warrey@gmail.com

Sweet Cape Vibes

For Halloween this year part of my costume included a long black cape, (OK so I glued a picture of Oprah to a paper plate to make my mask and went as 'Phantom of the Oprah' but that's another story). I was commenting to some of my friends how much fun wearing a cape was, how it flowed behind me when I walked, how it made me feel young again and I wondered why we don't wear them anymore. My long time friend Tash pointed out that according to Edna, from the movie The Incredibles, capes are hazardous to superheros; getting sucked into jet engines, snagged on rockets, pulled into a vortex of wind... you know, the usual superhero stuff! Yes, Edna does have a very valid point but there are more dynamics to wearing capes than that... there are a variety of capes and each have a certain Vibe to them that influence not only what others think about you but how you feel about yourself!

For Example:



Feeling a little Fangy? Here's a cape guaranteed to make almost anyone's blood run hot.  You are rockin it Christopher Lee... eat your heart out Edward of Twilight, you glittery bastard!

Hey, Green is the new… Green!

And for those times where you need an accessory that says "And your little dog too!" You know, that accent piece that just begs someone to comment on the broom you rode in on or your  choice of make up color... yeah bitch, I dare you to comment.  Do it. 







 

 

For those special occasions there's even a cape that will make people sit up and take notice! Oh yes they will.

Who looks Fabulous? You do Darling!

But when I think of wearing a cape it's this level of coolness that comes to mind... bad-ass Jedi Warriors; they sure as hell don't have a problem fighting evil with their capes on, hell they even have a hoodie attached!

 Oh Yeah, an Elf with bitchin threads and his bow and arrow… you wanna make fun of his pointy ears and long blond hair?  I didn't think so.

Even kings wear capes … although I'd have chosen a different necklace for that outfit but whatever; I guess when your girlfriend gives you bling you damn well better wear it! (Especially when her cousin is an Elf with a bow and arrow…  Aragorn seems resigned to the emasculating wardrobe malfunction but vows to overcompensate by wearing lots of testosterone-laden leather and armor, with feathers,  for his horse. Rowr!)

Check out this cape!  Only Super Girl could pull this look off. Wait, what do you mean you don't see a cape. It's right there.  It's red...On her shoulder.  No, up higher; yeah, that shoulder.

It's a Light Saber Batman & No,
I'm not happy to see you.

But The Best caped role models, for me, would have to be Batman and Darth Vader… just look at the way their capes flow as they walk, emanating power and kick-ass-ness! Now That's how to wear a Cape! They own wearing a cape with such confidence you naturally surrender to their superior intellect and attitude because their cool factor is above all others. No one could possibly rock a better cape-tude than these guys! 

Well, at least until you see these capes… it's hard to compete with sequins, Right?

Only in the Pacific Northwest...

Preface:  I don’t hate many things in life but there are a few things that, when I do use the word Hate in reference to, I frickin mean it. 

I Hate Slugs.  Those gelatinous blobs of snot have absolutely no reason to exist in this world except, perhaps, as duck food.  Snails are slightly less vile only because they have a shell and don’t expose their entire gooey carcasses for the world to see.  The slime those ghastly gastropods emit only completes my disgust factor…those glistening goo trails that never seem to dissipate brings me full circle as to why I Hate Slugs.  The fact that people actually cook and eat snails, (with butter because, excuse me, it would be so wrong to forget that important dairy product while eating slugs snails!), gags me green.  

Ok, so now that you are intimately aware of my epic issues with the you-know-whats, let me just share this with you:

Only in the Pacific Northwest will you... 

Last week I went out to my car to go to work and there was a huge banana slug On My Car! Like almost to the roof On My Car.  WTF? How?  I mean how does a slug actually climb a car?  I can see starting with a tire but honestly how did that secreting bastard reach the wheel well enough to continue his quest to the top of Mt. Toyota?  (If you aren’t familiar with the Banana slug, they are large and resemble an old, black-spotted banana in a kind I’m-so-not-eating-that-ever kind of way … and then add drippy goop; yeah, sounds tasty doesn’t it? *Shudder* Seriously, I don’t think even the duck would eat that shit).  My guess is that this was a particularly over zealous and vastly directionally challenged slug with a can-do, ( but why?), attitude.  Never the less that slick sucker was stuck to my car and I didn’t have time to cause much violence dislodge it from my car so off I drove to the Ferry.  I don’t know how long it took Sluggy to figure out that no good could come from his current situation and bail but when I got to work he was gone.  I sincerely hope he didn’t decide to make the Ferry his new home… can you imagine one of the workers looking up only to see a huge slug stuck to the side of the wall and thinking “WTF?     How?”

I thought that would be the end of that horrific, random weirdness but I was wrong…

The next morning I go out to my car and see…WTF?!  New slug tracks All Over My Car! I’m saying, allllllll over the car; my car was slug-raped.  GAH!  I can’t tell you how violated I felt on behalf of my poor car, a victim of revenge.  It had to be a relative of Sluggy’s that defiled the innocent paint job on my car… some sick retaliation for doing a drive-by on his banana cousin; that’s the only thing that would explain the colossal ‘Screw You’ messaged slimmed all over My CAR!  Did I mention I really Hate slugs?

I’m not without resources to counteract those who would defile my precious transportation, oh No!  Tonight those depraved fucks are going to have a delicious meal compliments of Bayer Advanced Slug and Snail KILLER; (Safe to use around pets and wildlife) Muwahahahahaaaa! 

If they thought they could take over my ride and gross me green they have another thing coming… Tommy Lee Jones and I have only this to say to them: 

                           

How many Links does it take...

Caution: Contents of this post contain mature subject matter and it will, most likely, only go down hill from here.(Oh and there will also be a lot of unnecessary links just to waste your time further). You have been warned!   

And yet, you are still reading aren't you? Naughty... 

Have you noticed how Sexual Innuendo has managed to make it's way into every day life?  Oh, it's subtle to be sure but it's everywhere! Here's a few examples I've run across, I think you'll see what I mean.


As I perused  through the cheese section of QFC I ran across this... and frankly I don't know whether it's a good thing to be Semi-Anything let alone Mild, but since it looked like a personal issue,  I wished Cheddar the best of luck and moved to the Big Cheese section; hey Big is always better than Semi, right?

Don't you love how anything Italicized can become it's own Sexual Innuendo? Wink Wink, Nudge Nudge.



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A 'Simple' Trip ~

It was a simple trip to the grocery store on a Sunday afternoon, or at least it should have been simple.  Now I realize that going to Fred Meyers on a weekend is just asking for trouble, especially if you want to run in and grab a few things quickly, but I was optimistic … and that was my first mistake.  Any time you combine a grocery store with an anything-else-you-could-possible-want store the probability of doing anything Quickly diminishes significantly considering the amount of people per square inch that store can hold, (and trust me, it can hold a shit-load of people… and they were. All. There. Sunday).

After dodging the little brats scouts selling cookies at the entrance I grab a cart and plunge into what would be a frustrating yet enlightened hour long experience. Did you know that you can actually be invisible while shopping? It’s true… or at least that’s what it felt like on Sunday.  In the vegetable section no one could see me; no one could see that my cart and I were trying to break up a town hall meeting in front of the onions.  Nope, this little cluster of people rallied around the onions and had a lively debate about how Walla Walla’s were so much better than Vidalia’s in a soup but you couldn’t beat a red onion for topping hot dogs and hamburgers with.  I had to agree with that last statement since I was hoping to score said red onion for dinner… that is if they would get out of the goddamn way!  Eventually I must have returned to a solid and they noticed that ‘Hey, darn if we aren’t in the way’ and drifted, in their matching pumpkin orange shirts, over to monopolize the lettuce, which I’m certain contained more intelligence than those onion-hog-ers. 

Somewhere in between the cereal and the condiment isle I noticed a new trend that has become quite popular…half full grocery cart abandonment. Just random carts seemingly belonging to no one sitting in the middle of the, naturally, busy isle!  I mean, just sitting there all by it’s self, alone and cast off… or so you think.  After a few minutes someone with a huge arm full of groceries comes down the isle and throws their stuff in the now non-abandoned cart. Apparently these people have decided that pushing a cart up and down an isle is far too much work and instead leave it where it can cause the most frustration for people to negotiate around and go gather their food from as far as the next isle over…and then bring it back to their cart. Is it just me or is that way more work than just pushing the cart as you shop?  I can see if you need mustard and it’s a few steps away from your cart and the isle is stacked with other people, (who are seemingly having a mental battle with themselves over which baked beans are the best… to which I say “Bushes baked beans, you know, with the cute/maniacal talking dog,” now move along!), but grab what you need, go back to your cart and get on with it!  

I finally make it to the final destination before I can check out and make my escape; the milk isle, oooooooh the dreaded milk isle. The Port Orchard Freddy’s has the thought process that putting a table full of cookies in front of the Milk is a brilliant sales plan… I mean who doesn’t like milk and cookies?  I don’t.  I don’t like the table that sits in the middle of the isle creating a grocery cart traffic nightmare! It wouldn’t be so bad if the people who need milk would cruise by, grab their milk and leave the area… but they don’t.  They study the vast array of choices the milk cooler offers; 2% or whole, organic or store brand, gallon or half gallon, chocolate or soy… sooooo many choices. Do you know what kind of milk your family drinks?  I do.  It’s 2% organic and I know where it’s located in the milk cooler.  I buy pretty much the same thing only differing when something similar is on sale.  That being said, I’m pretty sure most people know what kind of milk they drink and the approximate location of where it lives.  But in my short bus special Freddys there seems to be some confusion regarding the selection of something that is so simple… it’s as though they become mesmerized and can’t process what they are seeing.  It’s MILK people; it’s not the cereal isle where you can literally spend an entire day picking out the perfect crunchy, fiber laden, energy giving, diet helping, multi-grained breakfast food… no, it’s MILK. Put it in your cart, grab the damn cookies and go ponder the eggs, they are slightly less complicated; brown or white, cage free or regular, half a dozen or 6?

Through the check out with the usual invasive discussion of the items I’m buying from the clerk … are they really that bored that they have to add their opinion about my choice of toothpaste? I make it to the door… the door of freedom, Yes!

Aaaaand plunged right into the vile nest of short, uniformed do-gooder scouts; Shit.  Now I know this is going to shock your sensibilities to the core but I’m really not into other people’s children and adults begging for money, even if it’s for a really good cause. I resent the fact that I have to be under some kind of unspoken yet implied moral obligation to give someone my money for a crappy box of cookies I won’t eat… and don’t even get me started on the bell ringers during the holidays! (Oh, I’ll rant about those, yes I will, but that’s for another time)  With a (mostly) polite smile I lie say “No thanks, already got some” and skulk past the parents who give me the look that says ‘Oh what? My kid’s not good enough to buy cookies from?’ I’m thinking … why can’t I be invisible to these juvenile, cookie-pushing pimps? Gah!

If I’ve learned anything from this experience it’s that I live in an area that represents a group of people that are the dichotomy between ‘Normal’ and The Twilight Zone.  My plan is to observe and make note of the behavior patterns of these so called humans… I’m pretty damn sure there are Aliens among us and they live in PO.  I’ll let you know what I find… it sure as Hell won’t be boring!    }:o)

And so it begins...

I think the picture gives cadence as to how this blog will roll... if you are of the faint of heart, hate snarky and irreverent comments or require eye bleach every time you see a swear word then this blog is not for you!  All of the above, along with words that probably don't exist and which will mostly likely be misspelled, Will show up here.

Why create this blog in the first place? Because I want to say all these things on Facebook but can't ... my mommy is watching.  So, those of you who are lucky or Unlucky enough to stumble upon my dark, snarky and sometimes humorous mutterings beware... there will be more Gutter Mutters from Dee Dee's mind!  Muwhahahhaaaaaaaa! (Oh, and I really have an affinity for the exclamation mark so get used to that as well... high maintenance?  Yep! Big girl panties everyone!)        }:o)